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Ep. 6: The most effective way to build your Instagram following

The most effective way to build your Instagram following/why slow growth is good (and necessary). 

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Can I tell you a secret?  I don’t have 10,000 followers on Instagram.  You may be wondering how I consider myself an authority with under 5,000 followers, and that’s a valid question. However, my client coaching business continues to grow and flourish.  There are two types of people on Instagram.  Stay tuned to learn which camp you’re in now, and which one you should be in!

The most effective way to build your Instagram following

Hey there, and welcome to Episode 6 of Instagram Insider Hacks!  Today’s discussion is all about why slow growth on Instagram is good and necessary. There’s a saying that goes, “Trees that are slow to grow bear the best fruit.” And when it comes to Instagram, as with most things, you will find this to be true.

Engaged followers are the best kind of followers

Engaged followers save, share, and comment on your posts. They look forward to them.  

The conversation continues in the dm.  You build deeper connections.

And the more followers connect with your account, the more Instagram shows it to the world 

You’re sharing encouraging, entertaining, or educational content that brings value

With quick growth come follows/unfollows
Those aren’t your people
They won’t engage with your content

Why you need engaged followers

Algorithm puts you lower

     You’re left at the bottom of the pile with zero engagement

     IG won’t show your stuff to anyone

Slow growth is good and necessary. 

Next, I’m going to share best and worst practices for gaining true fans, but before I do {ding}

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Best practices for gaining true fans

• Share encouraging, entertaining, or educational content that delivers value – Serve your followers (it’s not about YOU – it’s about THEM)
• DON’T post and ghost!
• Speak to the needs of your avatar – age, likes, dislikes, pain points 

Worst practices for gaining true fans

• Follow for follow threads with no common ground (choose those whose content you’d be happy to share and that delivers value for your fans and compliments your content)
• Follow Trains

Likely you’ve participated in a follow train, and for more info on this check out my IGTV Frozen Episode 1 on Loops and LIkes for likes.  

Good side

Designed specifically for your niche and you meet some nice folks to collaborate with. Also potential clients.

Smaller follow threads are better and you can connect at a deeper level

These have their place and time – but only a limited place and time because:


 They take up a tremendous amount of time
 Most are there for the quick follow – and then they unfollow

This hurts your engagement

When your engagement dips, 

This gets you frustrated

You decide to back off posting

Because you’re not active, IG penalizes you and doesn’t show your stuff when you decide to post

People aren’t interacting with your stuff because you’re not constant and more unfollow.

You quit.

And in a moment, I’m going to give you a pro-tip about unfollowers!

Remember when I referred to the two types of people on Instagram?  The two types of people on Instagram are the speed dialers and the steady pacers.

The speed dialers are there to win.  They follow a bunch of people one day and unfollow the next to see who’ll stick.  They join share threads like they’re going out of style and they drop emojis for comments.

trees that are slow to grow bear the best fruit

You’ll never see a speed dialer leaving a long comment because they’re not on Instagram to build connections, they’re there to get to 10,000 followers and build status. Their posts have little to no captions with several nebulous hashtags, and almost zero comments.  If they do have comments, they’re mostly the emoji type – like hearts, fists, or flowers. Speed dialers are there for themselves and no one else.  Do you know a speed dialer?  If so, don’t be jealous, because they’re not winning.

Steady pacers slow their roll.  It’s important to take time to leave valid comments (more than two words and 5 emojis).  They think about what to say that brings value to others, both in comments and captions.

They schedule their posts and create cohesiveness in the feed.  Additionally, they take time to share themselves in stories and share and tag others.  These users deliberately visit follower accounts to comment and give love. 

They spend time on the app and don’t dash off to the next social media platform.  Steady pacers are dedicated to the Instagram platform and delivering value to their tribe.

Choose authentic growth instead. 

How to grow your community authentically and organically

  1.  Nail down your avatar and search for people that fit that description
  2. Use hashtags specific to that avatar and research hashtag hubs 
  3. When you find these people, follow them and leave genuine comments
  4. Continue to serve your current audience by engaging on their posts and answering your own comments
  5. Keep delivering value in the feed and stories
  6. Get on video – both live and IGTV – you will reach a different audience and gain followers each time
  7. Be consistent – post each week

And that pro-tip about unfollowers – the ones who follow for follow?  You don’t always catch this right away and I don’t advocate 3rd party apps for this because Instagram doesn’t love 3rd party apps.  So build this into your schedule:  Spend time once per week perusing your followers on Instagram and checking to be sure they’re still following. (See this IGTV Video for more insights.) Let me walk you through this.  First, You’ll need to go to their account profile and click “following” and see if your name is there. Then, if it isn’t, check out their bio to make sure she’s your ideal avatar.  If she’s not, go ahead and unfollow (if you’re following).  And if she IS your ideal avatar, you can do one of two things:

  1.  Continue to follow and nurture her posts for a period of time (I advise this) or
  2. Go ahead and unfollow.

To wrap up, remember: 

 Slow growth is good (and necessary!)

Engaged followers mean Instagram will show your account to more potential followers

To build engaged followers, deliver valuable and useful content, comments, and just be social!

Get clear on your Avatar – and if you need more help on that, let me know in the Instagram dm so I can plan another podcast episode around that topic!

Don’t waste tons of time on follow loops 

BE CONSISTENT!   Benjamin Franklin said, “He that can have patience can have what he will.” Remember, it’s a marathon, not a sprint.  Don’t be a speed dialer.  Be a steady pacer.  

If you liked this episode, snap a photo of it, share to your Instagram stories, and tag me.  Bonus points if you message me letting me know your biggest takeaway! 


You’ll never see a speed-dialer leave a meaningful comment because she’s not on Instagram to build connections; she’s there to build status.

Slow growth is both good, and necessary on Instagram.

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